My name is Tim Beachum and I am the author of “The World’s Worst Pickup Lines – That Actually Worked.” I have managed to help shy men from around the world get over their fear when it comes to picking up women. Being a man I hate to say this… Most men are clueless when it comes to women. My goal is to teach you a few basic strategies that you can use instantly to conquer your fear.
Have you ever been standing there admiring a beautiful woman from across the room, but were to afraid to take action? Have you ever been standing in line at the store and a beautiful woman was right in front of you? You knew it was the perfect time to strike, but still – you chickened out?
Try not to beat yourself up to bad, I use to be that guy. I was out with some friends, and all was going well. In came a group of women and one caught my eye. She was the most perfect woman that I had ever saw in my life. For me it was love at first sight. Every time she would glance over in my direction I would look away. No matter how much I tried to pump myself up to make a move I could not do it. I was so disappointed with myself. To my surprise one of the guys in our group went over and started talking to the group of girls. Before I knew it the girl of my dreams was giving him her phone number. They are together until this day, and every time I see them all I can say to myself is I wish that was me.
I realized that I had a fear that was hindering me from being happy. How could I ever find the woman of my dreams if I was afraid to approach her? I made a promise to myself that I would not stop until I found a way to defeat this fear. As far as I was concerned if others could do it so could I. What I did next was a bit crazy but it worked. I hit a couple of bars looking for the average Joe that was good at picking up women.
There was one guy in particular that was getting phone numbers as if he was holding some sort of free raffle or something. I had found my expert. I went over to this ladies man and explained to him that I was writing a book on pickup lines and picking up woman and wanted to know if I could interview him via phone. He was more than happy to share his secrets and the next day we talked for hours. He shared everything that he knew about picking up woman.
Excited about what I had just learned I went out later on that night to test it out. About ten minutes of being in the bar I was already talking to a beautiful woman. Everything felt surreal to me. I could not believe I was actually doing it. During my interview the guy admitted that even with all of the practice he still gets butterflies before approaching a woman. One of his secrets was that he counts to three in his head and no matter what he approaches. He went on to tell me that he is always practicing, He makes it a must to approach a woman every time he is out. He even admitted that he got a lot of rejection and had become immune to it after awhile.
Decades ago picking up women was a lot easier. Women were more timid in the old days. When a man approached a woman she was flattered, and it was rare for her to reject the mans advances. Since the old days many things have changed. Woman have become more out spoken, and independent. Needing a man to take care of them has become a thing of choice, rather than a must. Some men have mistaken this change as being negative and often feel that a woman’s rejection to his advances is do to her being snooty or materialistic. Although this may be true in a few cases, for the most part it is not.
In order to master the art of picking up woman you have to learn to think outside the box. The old lines such as can I buy you a drink etc… no longer work. Most woman have become immune to all of the old school tactics.
Before you worry about picking up women you should first worry about having a game plan. Believe me when I tell you, ALL WOMEN HAVE A plan. They have what is called condition responses to certain patterns. When they see you walking across the room, they already know what your going to do and what you are going to say. They are prepared. We as men tend to make it up as we go. BIG MISTAKE.
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